Send Me Your Favorite Thanksgiving Day Recipe and I'll post it on my blog!

It's that time of year when our attention turns to FOOD.  Copious amounts of food! So for all of you who follow this blog I have a special invitation!  Send me your favorite Thanksgiving Day Recipe and I will post it here for everyone to see and share. Feel free to add any comments to your recipe (such as, this was my great grandmother's recipe who came over from Eastern Europe, etc.) or any kind of background about it or how your family likes it. 

I'm especially interested in recipes that are traditional but also with something a little different. I'll group them by category. The most unusual recipe will win a free copy of one of my books (your pick), personally autographed.

Looking forward to seeing what you all send it! Email your recipes to: thevictorbook@sbcglobal.net

Marlayne

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Sometime our family has included with not only Thanksgiving but Christmas dinners for the several years now is this version of sweet potoato or yams called "Sweet Potatoes to Die For."

3 cups of cooked and mashed sweet potatoes
1/2 cup sugar
2 eggs, well beaten
1/4 cup butter
1/2 cup milk
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla

In separate bowl, mix the following together:
1 cup brown sugar
1/2 cup flour
1 cup chopped pecans
1/3 cup butter

In a glass cooking dish that has been sprayed with cooking spray, pour the potato mixture, smooth out. Pour the topping mixture over the potatoes, spreading as well as you can. The topping mixture will have a tendency to clump together and you may add small amounts of butter, stirring well, until you can get it to the texture that will spread. Bake uncovered in a 350 degree oven for 30 to 45 minutes.

Enjoy...Beverly

The Gospel in the Stars - Part 1

The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork. Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night sheweth knowledge. - Psalm 19:1-2 (KJV)
The Eye of God Nebula
In a previous post I wrote how the Gospel was hidden "in plain sight" in the first geneology given in the book of Genesis. The passage from Psalm 19 above then begs the question: has God also told the Gospel in the stars?  The information presented below did not come from any research done by me but I thought you would enjoy my sharing it.  Since it is too long for a single blog post, I will be posting a small portion every few days. 
 
According to the very first book of the Bible, YHWH Elohhiym (the LORD God) set the luminaries of the stars, sun, moon, and planets in the heavens as perpetual signs declaring the awesome glory of His plan of eternal redemption and His victory over the adversary, hasaataan (Satan).

Like all natural things that have succumbed to pagan influences, the constellations are part of God’s creation. He set the stars in the sky, and they were put there for a purpose . We are told what that purpose is in the very first chapter of the Bible. We read in Gen. 1:14-16 that Elohhiym said:

“Let there be lights in the expanse of the heavens to separate the day from the night, and let them be for signs and for seasons and for days and years; and let them be for lights in the expanse of the heavens to give light on the earth”; and it was so. 16   God made the two great lights, the greater light to govern the day, and the lesser light to govern the night; He made the stars also.


So we see that the luminaries of the sun, moon, stars, and to some extent the planets as well, each play a greater or lesser role in explaining and prophetically illustrating YHWH’s plan of redemption leading to the ultimate establishment of His Kingdom. He accomplishes this specifically through the institution of signs and seasons.

The “Signs” mentioned in Genesis 1:14 refer to prophetic signs in the stars in general, but more specifically to the 12 Signs of the Zodiac. These signs are star constellations, groupings of adjacent stars that collectively depict a variety of images, such as a lion, a woman, a scorpion, and a ram. Anciently there were a total of 48 such constellations, with each of the 12 signs having three corresponding constellations that were associated with it.

A list of the twelve signs and their associated constellations follows:
  • Virgo: Bo├Âtes the herdsman, Coma the woman and child, Centaurus the centaur
  • Libra: Corona Borealis the northern crown, Lupus the wolf, Crux the southern cross
  • Scorpius: Ophiuchus the serpent-bearer, Serpens the serpent, Hercules the hero
  • Sagittarius: Draco the dragon, Ara the altar, Lyra the lyre
  • Capricornus: Aquila the eagle, Sagitta the arrow, Delphinus the dolphin
  • Aquarius: Piscis Austrinus the southern fish, Pegasus the horse, Cygnus the swan
  • Pisces: Bands joining the fish, Andromeda the chained lady, Cepheus the king
  • Aries: Cassiopeia the queen, Cetus the sea beast, Perseus the warrior
  • Taurus: Auriga the shepherd/charioteer, Orion the hunter/giant, Eridanus the river
  • Gemini: Canis Major the big dog, Canis Minor the small dog, Lepus the hare/serpent
  • Cancer: Ursa Major the big bear, Ursa Minor the small bear, Argo Navis the ship
  • Leo: Hydra the water snake, Crater the cup, Corvus the raven
The constellations mentioned above are arranged in the sky in such a way that they produce multiple depictions of prophetic scenarios found in the Bible. The twelve groupings of four constellations each, called “houses”, can have meanings within themselves, but the prophetic interactions also overlap these “boundaries”. It is quite common for a decan constellation from one house, say Virgo, to directly interact with a decan from a neighboring house, such as Libra. Perhaps the most persistent prophetic picture found in the stars, spread many times across the night sky regardless of the time of year, is the so-called “Protoevangelium” (which means “first good message”), in which God states to the serpent in the Garden of Eden:

Genesis 3:  15 And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your seed and her seed; He shall bruise you on the head, and you shall bruise him on the heel.New American Standard Bible : 1995 update. (Ge 3:15).

Source: http://www.gospelinthestars.com/

The Inspiration Behind The Victor/Meeting Amy Grant

"Two princes wage the battle for eternity but The Victor has been known from the start…"

The verses above from Amy Grant’s “Fairytale” song (Father’s Eyes) was the "light bulb" over my head for my first book: “The Victor” back in 1981.  It was  originally titled “The Victor and His Bride”, but when the book went into publication I figured no self-respecting male would ever touch a book that had a title like that so I shortened it.  I began writing The Victor 30 years ago on an IBM Selectric typewriter.  For those of you close to my age; you know what a pain in the neck  editing/correcting documents that way were!  In the early 1980s I finally got it onto computer and must have rewritten it over a hundred times, improving and honing my skills; putting in new sections and throwing out others.  The very first draft was a rather silly story with a talking horse but as I got older, the story-line became more serious and I can quite honestly say that the book "grew up" with me. 

I submitted it to numerous publishers in the late 80s and early 90s and after beating my head against the proverbial wall with no results; finally gave up and shelved my dream for a good 20 years and quite literally forgot all about it. Real life got in the way. Starting in my early 20s I was too busy contending with a serious illness that resulted in major surgery, followed by years of infertility, then the adoption of my daughter at age 3 and all the while working full time as an administrative assistant.  Seeing as how I couldn't even pay people to read my "story" I simply gave up until 2007 when God orchestrated the events which led up to it finally being published by Tate.

When I knew that "my baby" would finally be in print after almost 30 years, I contacted an old boss of mine (John Styll) who I worked for when he was editor of Contemporary Christian Music Magazine and had since become President of the Gospel Music Association. I went to the GMA website, and sent an email through the general mail asking them to forward it to John and providing information about my employment with him so they (and he) would know I was the "real deal". To my delight and amazement, John emailed me back within the week and congratulated me.  We wrote back and forth and I told him about my book, how it had been inspired by an Amy Grant song and asked if he could put me in touch with her management agency.  His response was "sure!" and "feel free to use my name when you contact them", which I did.

Amy's agency said to go ahead and address my letter to them and they would forward it on.  With trembling hands I wrote a letter to Amy Grant telling her about how I can to faith in Jesus as a non believing Jew at age 17, how her song "Fairytale" had given me the idea for The Victor, and sent two copies of the finished book to her. One for her to autograph and send back to me and one for her to keep.

After several weeks I got my book back with her autograph which read: "Marlayne; congratulations on finishing this great project - Amy Grant".  After that I joined her "Friends of Amy" fan club in the hopes of getting to meet her face-to-face after one of her concerts at a meet and greet.  She performed in Malibu about a year later and I went with high hopes and great excitement only to learn that there would be no "meet and greet" that night.  I was SO BUMMED.  Then six months later another opportunity arose for me to be one of several new Christian authors at the Life & Faith Concert Tour in Richmond, VA where Amy was one of the headliners.  The concert promoter and I had become good friends in the months leading up to the event and she was bound and determined to give me real face time with Amy Grant since I had basically flown 3,000 miles to the East Coast specifically for that privilege. 

Well, as you may have guessed, my hopes were finally realized. I just wish I had not been sweating for 10 hours straight in 90+ degree humidity before I did. I looked like a wreck and Amy looked…well, she looked gorgeous. I think she is one of the most naturally beautiful women I have ever seen. I got to spend just a couple of minutes with her before she went onstage to perform at the end of a very long, hot day. Just enough time to show her the book her song inspired, let her know about our mutual acquaintance, John Styll and the fact that we both had a daughter with the same name. Mine spelled Karina; hers spelled Corrina.

To my dismay, however, when I showed her the book that her song had inspired, she admitted that my words "jogged" her memory but it was obvious she had never read it. I left right after getting the photo you will see below. It was 7:30 by that time and all I wanted was to get into a hot shower, clean off and get some dinner before the restaurants all closed.  I found out later that night from my friend that had I or any of the other authors stayed until after her concert we would have gotten the opportunity to go aboard her bus for 45 minutes and really get to talk with her and have her sign things for us but it was a last moment decision on her part and most of us had already left having been there all day.

So my life had come full circle at last. I finally got to meet Amy Grant; below is the picture we took together (she’s the tall gorgeous one on the left).

Amy Grant and me

Suffering with a Chronic Disease

I remember the day well it all started in October of 1984.  It was the day after I had gone to Knott’s Berry Farm with my then boyfriend (now husband) Michael. I got what I thought was an ordinary case of "the runs" and took the typical over the counter remedies but nothing seemed to work. This ailment continued for the next two weeks and when I began noticing blood, I decided it was time to see a doctor. I went and saw a regular MD who had me undergo a lower GI barium x-ray which showed nothing. For a few days after that I had relief then it started up again with a vengeance; making me feel weak and exhausted. I then sought the services of an internist who performed no tests but put me on a more restricted diet and took my money for a year, only to have my symptoms become worse. I began to feel punished anytime I ate and started dropping weight. Finally my mother who had been worried sick about me, insisted I see a specialist. By this time I was so miserable, I agreed. His name was Dr. Cohen. He took my history, did a sigmoidoscopy on me and then informed me he was not going to mess around with my health like the other doctors. He was going to have to do a colonoscopy to find out exactly what was wrong.

After the procedure I was informed I officially had a "disease". It was ulcerative colitis and while there was no medicinal cure, there were things that could help. I was only 24 and was depressed to learn I actually had a disease. He started me on prednisone which many doctors call a miracle drug because it temporarily will remove many symptoms of an immune system gone haywire. What they don't tell you is how bad this drug is for you physically in the long run and how awful it makes you behave in the short term. It's like having perpetual "road rage" and raging PMS at the same time but it did stop my symptoms immediately. After almost 2 years of almost nonstop diarrhea, bleeding and abdominal pain, I had almost instant relief. During this time, I had gotten engaged and was planning to marry. The only thing I could say that I liked about the disease was losing the weight but it was a heck of a way to do it. To save money, I moved back home to Torrance and commuted to Orange County every day. I wouldn't eat or drink a thing until after I had gotten to work so as to avoid "waking my bowels" up. To say that I knew where every public bathroom was on my 60 mile commute was an understatement. Sometimes I barely made it to a bathroom in time despite not eating.

As the days and weeks progressed after our wedding, it took higher and higher doses of Prednisone to keep the ulcerative colitis in check. The increase in dosage also increased my heart rate, my rage and impatience and started bloating my face and body up to the point where I looked like an organ transplant patient who was fighting rejection of the new organ. My new marriage was taking an awful beating. I was practically chained to the bathroom, could hardly eat and was making life hell for my poor new husband who began secretly considering divorce before we had kids as I was no longer the person he had married.

By now I was up to 45 grams of Prednisone a day, I was having bathroom accidents frequently (which were totally humiliating) and if I continued putting up with ulcerative colitis for several more years, it would lead to colon cancer. My life had become so miserable that I really had no options left but to schedule surgery. At this time a Christian friend at work invited me to come to her church to hear a man preach who had a miraculous healing ministry. By this time I had scheduled the surgery to remove my colon and I was frightened of the subsequent pain and changes to my body. Even though by this time I had become quite jaded towards ministers claiming to have special healing ministries, I was desperate enough to try and attend; pleading with the Lord to heal me miraculously rather than through the expensive, painful surgery I was facing. I made myself a promise that I would not tell the preacher what was wrong; that if he was the real deal; God would have to give him a specific "word of knowledge" about my condition and approach me for healing, not the other way around. My husband was incredulous but agreed to go with me. I stood and wept silently throughout the entire service with tears streaming down my face, pleading with God to heal me so I wouldn't have to face surgery. The preacher either didn't notice me or was afraid to approach me. Whatever the reason, he made no reference to me and I left without having a miracle but still trusting the Lord.

I entered the hospital on October 8th, about a week before my 28th birthday. Next to me sat a young girl in the hospital admissions office that was facing open heart surgery. I decided I was glad that I was not having what she was but I was still apprehensive. My husband signed me in and they began prepping me for surgery the next day. The night before I had taken a colon cleanser (which resulted in another accident early the next morning before going to the hospital). That night there was no food, just a lot of antibiotic pills. So much so in fact that I ended up throwing them all up. Early the next morning I was wheeled down to surgery with my poor husband at my bedside. They had given me a shot of Demurral to calm my nerves and I was cracking jokes to the nurses. They wheeled me in, transferred me to the operating table and swabbed my entire abdomen with orange antiseptic. I remember counting backwards and only getting to 90. When I awoke from the anesthesia it was with a shock of pain. I couldn't talk and could hardly take a breath, nor could I ask the nurses for more Morphine for the horrific pain while they discussed the latest videos they had rented.

They wheeled me up to my post-surgical room. My nurse was Stella and I'll never forget how she hovered over me like a mother bird, putting pillows all around me, feeding me ice-chips and hooking up hoses and tubes to every opening in my body. Although I was weak I was very conscious of her exceptional care and was able to thank her months later face to face and tell her how much it had meant to me. I had a long vertical scar stretching from the bottom of my chest all the way down to almost my pubic area like a big zipper. I had a NG tube snaked down through my nose/throat into my stomach. I had a suction hose attached to where my rectum used to be and a large IV that was in my neck to feed me and hydrate me. And last but not least, I had an illesotomy bag and was catheterized to save me numerous trips to pass water in the bathroom.

I was only supposed to be in the hospital for 10 days maximum. I couldn't eat anything at all for a few days then only clear liquids to start. Food and restaurant commercials on the TV were absolute torture. Slowly they began introducing bland food into my diet and on my birthday my surgeon had sent a birthday cake to me in my room but for some reason it tasted like dirt. I was warned that I would have a lot of gas so when I started experiencing a lot of pain and belching, I attributed it to gas. The night before I was supposed to be released, I was watching the world series with my husband in my hospital room. My husband was eating fast food as was his custom. The commute from his work and our home to the hospital every night was a good 30 miles each way. Suddenly I snatched away the empty Carl's Jr. bag and threw up into it. That night my nurse spent the evening walking me around the corridor as I belched and belched, getting Demurral shots for the pain every 2 hours. The next day I was supposed to be released but instead of going home, I was given an emergency upper G.I. It's bad enough when the stuff was cold but even more disgusting when the Barium is room temperature! I was writhing in agony at this point and not knowing what was going on. Hours later, the assistant surgeon told me what it was. Since my entire large intestine had been removed, during healing the small intestine had twisted itself into knots (referred to as a blockage) and could burst unless a second surgery was performed.

"Fine!" I said. "Do whatever you have to do; just fix it!" I remember just before being put under for the second time telling the Lord that I was committing my soul into His care should I not come out alive. I had the second surgery but this time instead of staples, they had to sew me shut the old fashioned way. Inhaling was even worse this time when I awoke. I felt like I had been hit by a Mack truck. Everything that could have gone wrong with me, went wrong. My NG tube fell out while I was getting my hair washed and it had to be put back in while I was awake (horrible procedure)! This time however, while I healed my bowels stayed in place.

My poor mother and father were at my hospital bed every single day (a long commute from Torrance) for what ended up totaling 30 days. They are not believers and couldn't wrap their heads around the notion that we hadn't paid the people who had come from our church to pray for the entire first 7-hour surgery and the second 5-hour surgery.

Through it all, though I was in a lot of pain, I entrusted myself and my soul to the care of my creator just like a little child; knowing that whatever did or did not happen, that I was in the center of His will. It has been over 20 years since I had that surgery and I have never regretted it. As a result, I have been able to alleviate the fears of one of my mother's friends who was facing the same surgery and was scared to death. I changed my medical dressing right in front on him; showing him that it was really no big deal. Here I was a 30ish female, exposing my stomach with my cuffed small intestine sticking out through my skin and not acting like it was a big deal. It gave him a much needed lift and encouragement and he had the surgery. He never forgot this act of kindness and has since referred to me as his "angel". I always told him to thank God, not me, because I did it for the Lord. Recently he was able to pay the same kindness forward as he did the same thing for a woman friend of his who also had to have the same surgery and he was so glad that he finally got his chance to do someone else the same favor.

A year or so ago I ran into one of the nurses who had taken care of me.  I was attending a Messianic Jewish club event when I overheard this person telling someone that she had a really unusual name and that her mom had given all her daughter’s candy names. I walked up to her and asked if her name was Taffy and she replied “yes”.  I gave her a hug and told her that she had been one of my favorite nurses. She had actually been the one to walk me around the corridors at 2:00 the night I had the horrible obstruction, giving me Demerol shots. She looked me in the eye and said “We were seriously worried about you. I’m so glad you’re doing so well.” The way she said it led me to believe that my life back in October of 1988 might very well have been in more jeopardy than I realized at the time.  It is not uncommon for people to die as a result of a serious bowel obstruction.

Now I lead a very normal life; eat whatever I want, and going to the bathroom takes minutes, not hours.  Best of all I can't have any more colonoscopies (because I no longer have one) and I'm off those horrible drugs which caused my older sister to have hip, shoulder and cataract surgery even though took a lot less than me and for a shorter period of time. God brought me through the storm instead of flying me over it and while I would never want to have to repeat it, I don't regret any of it. It made me realize how utterly demoralizing, debilitating, and life altering having a chronic disease can be and how those who suffer with such things need our understanding and compassion.